does your husband have any sexual problem?
My husband has normal erection and ejaculation.
I am obese. My BMI is 38. I do have irregular menses. I have sex with my husband 3 times per week. We have been trying very hard for the past few years. Anyone have any idea what problem/s we have? What should we do?
Seems that you are having a condition called Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). In this condition, there is combination of irregular menses (oligomenorrhoea), obesity, inferility and sometimes diabetes. You need to get your hormoanl profile done i.e. your FSH/LH ratio, serum prolactin, serum testosterone and day 21 progesterone. Also, it is important for your husband to have his seminal fluid analysed to rule out condition like reduced sperm count or abnormal sperm morphology.
At the same time, you need to put in effort to lose weight. You need to check you blood sugar to se if you have diabetes. You also need to do blood tests for other condition like hyperthyrodism and hypothyroidism and connective tissue diseases like SLE.
Please consult your doctor soon!
